light nudity for the evening
- Jun. 13th, 2006 at 9:25 PM

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Comments
but you are kind of a sexy hunk of dude as it is...
as for my stamina on trails... i'm quite slow going. not at all like it was when we were in montana. yea, i get to to the top of these trails, but believe me... it's an slow effort.
actually it's not the belly I mind so much as the matching fat pads over each hip. it's an ftm curse: even those of use that manage to develop skinny thighs and asses (me!) still end up with that suggestion of hips riding around up there where we'd like to be tapering neatly into our jeans.
::blushes::
I'd a thought the belly and love handles--which no one gets to touch--would be dose of reality.
I guess the reality is ok.
I really like the picture of your frontal bone too.
or paranoid. totally getting it wrong either way. I can read animals' minds practically but people send such odd signals that I can't make them out if they don't explicitly say hey you go away.
it's why I can't score drugs on the street either. well, not very well.
If you go to a place like Eros, you can get as close as you want and watch for as long as you want. Men go to those places for sex with strangers in public or to watch it. And for the most part, they want to be watched too.
I've never felt the need to watch for subtle signals in my limited experience with men's parties or clubs. It either happens or it doesn't. They have right to say no...and so do you. For instance, men have grabbed for my dick and I have gently fended them off and then we both moved on...no big deal. I've only had a problem with that once where someone wouldn't take no for an answer and wouldn't let me go. It's also ok to just join in (in a sex club, not a bdsm play party) and see if they want your presence. If not, they'll let you know.
Bdsm play requires negotiation of some sort before starting to play. You'll want to know the skill-level and experience of the person you are playing with. Even with that, sometimes I've gotten burnt. For instance if they are in a "leather" club and are wearing the uniform, but have very very little experience...looking the part, but not knowing what to do.
I think you need to get over your desire to watch. Just go do it and have fun with it. It's not that big of a deal.
This is the best advice I can give you - wear flip flops.